An Introduction to Soulmates — Part 3

Hi, it’s Keiko. 

This is the third article in a series of six articles about soulmates.  In today’s article I am going to tell you all about how to attract your soulmate ♪

Contents

1. Don’t look for your soulmate

2. Attract your soulmate by being yourself

3. A fateful encounter will come with the flow

Don’t look for your soulmate

How do you go about finding your soulmate?  Well, first of all let me say that you don’t look for him or her.  When you are conscious of finding your soulmate you won’t find them.  That’s because you don’t look for your soulmate, you attract him or her to you.  So what you need to be conscious of is not your soulmate, but you yourself. 

You may think that you have to make an effort to find your soulmate, but it’s actually best to leave it to the Universe to determine who you meet.  In fact, the more you think “I have to find my soulmate” the more a void will grow in your heart and that just ends up being counterproductive. 

Instead you’d be better off imagining that you have already met your partner and that he or she is living in another city for work.  That way you will give off an aura of fulfillment.  It’s this aura of composure and fulfillment that is important. 

Attract your soulmate by being yourself

If you aren’t supposed to look for your soulmate, then what should you be doing?  Well, first of all, you should seriously aim to become independent.  It’s amazing how many people give up on trying to find a partner and then end up meeting their soulmate when they decide to live on their own. 

While soulmates are known to support each other, they are not known to depend on each other.   So when you send a signal to the Universe that you are ready to be independent, the chance of meeting your soulmate is much higher.

Also, your soulmate is attracted to the real you, so expressing your true charm is the fastest way to bring about a meeting. 

Focusing on what you are good at and refining your charm points are the best steps to take.  In fact so many people end up meeting their soulmates after they start taking lessons about things that they were interested in, or participating in activities that interest them. 

So rather than being conscious of your soulmate, be conscious of yourself.  And as for the natural you, there is also a possibility that your sex appeal may be lacking.  That is another reason why you might be finding it hard to meet your soulmate. 

So what should you do about that?  The answer is actually quite simple.  You need to use aroma to stimulate instinct.  

Our sense of smell is directly linked to instinct, so using aroma oil, perfume, or cologne that you think are sexy is a great way to awaken your instinct. 

A fateful encounter will come with the flow

I also want to stress that ‘flows’ are really important.  Certain challenges create flows, and quite often encounters take place because of these flows.  And more often than not encounters happen to people who are brave enough to dive into the unknown.

I certainly don’t recommend being static.  In fact, moving to a new place is actually a really good course of action to take.  

There are two big things which have an influence on fortune.  They are people and environment.  When you change the people you hang out with and the environment you live in your life is sure to change completely. 

If you move somewhere that your instinct regards as being a positive place, you will definitely notice a change of flow.  If you aren’t able to move right away, visiting high vibration spots is also very effective. 

There is a law of the Universe which dictates that like attracts like, so high vibration places are good at attracting lucky events and good encounters. 

So where exactly would you find high-vibration places?  Well, any place that puts you in a bright and radiant mood is usually a high-vibration spot. 

And just as important as where to go, is who to hang out with.  Spending as much time as possible with happy people is an ironclad rule for living a happy life. 

Another great method is spending quality time with people who have already met their soulmates and bathing in the happy aura that they emit.  That should help you pull in a good flow! 

There are even more ways to go about attracting your soulmate, so be sure to read the next article in the series to find out some more useful tips about how to meet your soulmate.